Saturday, December 17, 2011

How old does a girlfreind need to be to say no? Poll?

im 25 and my gf in 24 we have 2 kids together and have been together for 5 years, she is always wanting to go out to bars with her freinds that are single and have kids, the single girls just dump the kids off at a freinds house every weekend, also they never leave till 11 at night and start getting ready at 8pm then they dont get home until 430am, the bars close at 230, i have tried telling her to have a girls night here, or go out to dinner and have drinks but she says thats no fun she wants to dance, and the bar they go to is bad bad in general, everytime i tell her this she says im trying to control her, but i just want her to behave like a 24 year old with kids and a bf at home, that takes care of them, and her freinds do nothing but bash me, they call me controling but they fail to mention how they are in relationships, also my gf never sticks up for me like i wish she would say "hes not like that he just doesnt want me out late, because all the kids do is ask wheres mommy" and she calls me a woose because i dont like to go and drink, i have told her my dad was a alcoholic and i got abused and i dont want alcohol around my kids thats why i dont drink, idk how long (age wise) should i wait before she acts like a adult or do you think maybe i need to grow up???? and before you say one weekend she goes out and then you go out the next, i have tried that if i go out with my freinds its never a bar and i cant stand beings away from my kids, i want to be the to tuck them in every night and make sure their day is ready and planned...

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